They line up with their remedies
like I am a project laid out on a table.
Careful hands.
Soft voices.
Bright ideas.
As if grief were a cracked vase
and all I needed
was the right glue.
They tell me the world still has color.
They try to press it back into my eyes.
Push me toward sunsets.
Toward music.
Toward laughter loud enough
to drown out the screaming in my head.
If they can just make me laugh—
really laugh—
maybe the sound will stitch me closed.
They don’t see
how exhausting it is
to lift the corners of my mouth
when my chest feels like it’s caving in.
They don’t know
how I will replay that laugh later,
alone in the dark,
punishing myself for it.
How guilt creeps in behind it,
whispering,
How dare you?
How dare you breathe that easy
for even a second?
They don’t understand
that joy feels like betrayal now.
That light feels sharp.
That being “present”
can feel like abandoning him
in the place my mind goes
when it’s quiet.
I am being torn in two—
by the ache of missing him
and by the hands trying to pull me back
to something that no longer exists.
I know they mean well.
I know love is clumsy.
But I am not a puzzle missing a piece.
I am not broken porcelain
waiting to be repaired.
I am a mother
learning how to carry a wound
that does not close.
You don’t have to fix me.
You can’t.
Just sit with me
in the colorless hours.
Let me be fractured.
Let me grieve.
And if I laugh—
let it be mine.